Picture 1: My dad’s birthday party. Picture 2: Lauren enjoying sunlight and beads at the St. Pat’s Shamrock Shuffle. Picture 3: Nick and me, before running.
I’ve been having trouble sleeping lately. I gave up soda for Lent, therefore upping my coffee intake to get through the day, and the afternoon dosage is messing me up. (Yes, I realize this resolution was like robbing Peter to pay Paul.) But on one of those sleepless nights, for which I cannot even blame Lauren, I thought, “I wish my dad had something to look forward to on his birthday, besides getting his Medicare card.” I know when you get older, 65 is not so happy, especially when he told me at 60 he was “done celebrating birthdays.” But I decided to throw him a birthday party at Chili’s, his new favorite restaurant since they built a location near him a year ago.
I called management for food options. I gathered most of his brothers and sisters and their spouses, and combed our wedding invite list for addresses for his closest friends. I ordered a cake from Walmart Supercenter, conveniently in the same complex as the Chili’s. I told my father Nick, Lauren and I would treat him to lunch and he should meet us at noon. One of my brothers bailed because my nephew had pneumonia (poor guy). My other brother didn’t respond. And then Dad entered, surprised. It was so fantastic to see everyone, and I think everyone was impressed. Except Dad. He downplayed it in his usual fashion. But he was thrilled to catch up with Lauren and everyone else.
After the last crumb was picked up and the waitress was tipped, Nick, Lauren and I set off to visit my grandmother at her rehabilitation center. After a fall in her art class over the winter, my aunts placed her in a center in their hometown. My uncle says it will be another month, a month and a half, and then she will go to stay with him and my aunt. Grandma says, “By the end of March!” in faux optimism. She misses her freedom. We tried to coax her outside, but she offered a long explanation of how hard it would be to put her coat on, check out, etc. Lauren entertained herself for 30 minutes with Grandma’s walker, humorous, and enjoyed Grandma’s tickles and songs for her.
Sunday, back in Madison, Nick and I joined up with some friends for St. Pat’s festivities. It was a glorious day, I think about 55 degrees. The 5K: I was trying to break 30 minutes in my training, but I did 31, and I’m happy with that. Nick did 25 or 26 minutes. Lunch at Brocach pub, and then the annual parade. Lauren tried to stay awake through the parade, but by the end, she was asleep in the stroller. She was pretty thrilled by a green balloon and multiple strands of green beads.
Today, she learned how to point to her eyes and say, “Eyes!” And, I don’t think I’ve mentioned this before, but her favorite song is “Row Row Row Your Boat,” and so she’ll say “row-row-row” when you sing it. Perfection.